After a long day and some time of DEALING WITH A SITUATION I have realized that people tell you what they think you wanna hear and do what they wanna do. Some women both men and women hate to clean up they are unorganized and don't care what you think about it. Some people think that there looks can make up for the shit they refuse to do around the house. Then you through disrespectful children into it and it becomes a recipe for disaster. Because if that person continues to let there kids disrespect you they will start to do the same to you and eventually you will care less about making them happy. I feel there is no need in trying to explain your you have a attitude when the person you live with should know what bothers you .these are just my thoughts what's your